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45th
Being to advise or reprehend any one, consider whether it ought to be in publick or in
Private; presently, or at Some other time in what terms to do it & in reproving Shew no
Sign of Cholar but do it with all Sweetness and Mildness.
46th
Take all Admonitions thankfully in what Time or Place Soever given but afterwards not being
culpable take a Time [&] Place convenient to let him him know it that gave them.
47th
Mock not nor Jest at any thing of Importance break [n]o Jest that are Sharp Biting and if
you Deliver any thing witty and Pleasent abtain from Laughing thereat yourself.
48th
Wherein wherein you reprove Another be unblameable yourself; for example is more prevalent
than Precepts.
49th
Use no Reproachfull Language against any one neither Curse nor Revile.
50th
Be not hasty to beleive flying Reports to the Disparag[e]ment of any.
51st
Wear not your Cloths, foul, unript or Dusty but See they be Brush'd once every day at
least and take heed tha[t] you approach not to any Uncleaness.
52d
In your Apparel be Modest and endeavour to accomodate Nature, rather than to procure
Admiration keep to the Fashio[n] of your equals Such as are Civil and orderly with respect
to Times and Places.
53d
Run not in the Streets, neither go t[oo s]lowly nor wit[h] Mouth open go not Shaking yr
Arms [kick not the earth with yr feet, go] not upon the Toes, nor in a Dancing [fashion].
54th
Play not the Peacock, looking every where about you, to See if you be well Deck't, if
your Shoes fit well if your Stokings sit neatly, and Cloths handsomely.
55th
Eat not in the Streets, nor in the House, out of Season.
56th
Associate yourself with Men of good Quality if you Esteem your own Reputation; for 'tis
better to be alone than in bad Company.
57th
In walking up and Down in a House, only with One in Compan[y] if he be Greater than
yourself, at the first give him the Right hand and Stop not till he does and be not the
first that turns, and when you do turn let it be with your face towards him, if he be a Man
of Great Quality, walk not with him Cheek by Joul but Somewhat behind him; but yet in Such a
Manner that he may easily Speak to you.
58th
Let your Conversation be without Malice or Envy, for 'tis a Sig[n o]f a Tractable and
Commendable Nature: And in all Causes of Passion [ad]mit Reason to Govern.
59th
Never express anything unbecoming, nor Act agst the Rules Mora[l] before your
inferiours.
60th
Be not immodest in urging your Freinds to Discover a Secret.
61st
Utter not base and frivilous things amongst grave and Learn'd Men nor very Difficult
Questians or Subjects, among the Ignorant or things hard to be believed, Stuff not your
Discourse with Sentences amongst your Betters nor Equals.
62d
Speak not of doleful Things in a Time of Mirth or at the Table; Speak not of Melancholy
Things as Death and Wounds, and if others Mention them Change if you can the Discourse tell
not your Dreams, but to your intimate Friend.
63d
A Man o[ug]ht not to value himself of his Atchievements, or rare Qua[lities of wit; much
less of his rich]es Virtue or Kindred.
64th
Break not a Jest where none take pleasure in mirth Laugh not aloud, nor at all without
Occasion, deride no mans Misfortune, tho' there Seem to be Some cause.
65th
Speak not injurious Words neither in Jest nor Earnest Scoff at none although they give
Occasion.
66th
Be not froward but friendly and Courteous; the first to Salute hear and answer & be not
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