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67th
Detract not from others neither be excessive in Commanding.
68th
Go not thither, where you know not, whether you Shall be Welcome or not. Give not Advice
with[out] being Ask'd & when desired [d]o it briefly.
69th
If two contend together take not the part of either unconstrain[ed]; and be not obstinate in
your own Opinion, in Things indiferent be of the Major Side.
70th
Reprehend not the imperfections of others for that belong[s] to Parents Masters and
Superiours.
71st
Gaze not on the marks or blemishes of Others and ask not how they came. What you may
Speak in Secret to your Friend deliver not before others.
72d
Speak not in an unknown Tongue in Company but in your own Language and that as those of
Quality do and not as the Vulgar; Sublime matters treat Seriously.
73d
Think before you Speak pronounce not imperfectly nor bring ou[t] your Words too hastily but
orderly & distinctly.
74th
When Another Speaks be attentive your Self and disturb not the Audience if any hesitate
in his Words help him not nor Prompt him without desired, Interrupt him not, nor Answer him
till his Speec[h] be ended.
75th
In the midst of Discourse ask [not of what one treateth] but if you Perceive any Stop
because of [your coming you may well intreat him gently] to Proceed: If a Person of
Quality comes in while your Conversing it's handsome to Repeat what was said before.
76th
While you are talking, Point not with your Finger at him of Whom you Discourse nor Approach
too near him to whom you talk especially to his face.
77th
Treat with men at fit Times about Business & Whisper not in the Company of Others.
78th
Make no Comparisons and if any of the Company be Commended for any brave act of Vertue,
commend not another for the Same.
79th
Be not apt to relate News if you know not the truth thereof. In Discoursing of
things you Have heard Name not your Author always A [Se]cret Discover not.
80th
Be not Tedious in Discourse or in reading unless you find the Company pleased therewith.
81st
Be not Curious to Know the Affairs tof Others neither approach those that Speak in Private.
82d
Undertake not what you cannot Perform but be Carefull to keep your Promise.
83d
When you deliver a matter do it without Passion & with Discretion, howev[er] mean the
Person be you do it too.
84th
When your Superiours talk to any Body hearken not neither Speak nor Laugh.
85th
In Company of these of Higher Quality than yourself Speak not ti[l] you are ask'd a Question
then Stand upright put of your Hat & Answer in few words.
86th
In Disputes, be not So Desireous to Overcome as not to give Liberty to each one to deliver
his Opinion and Submit to the Judgment of the Major Part especially if they are Judges of
the Dispute.
87th
Let thy carriage be such] as becomes a Man Grave Settled and attentive [to that which is
spoken. Contra]dict not at every turn what others Say.
88th
Be not tedious in Discourse, make not many Digressigns, nor rep[eat] often the Same
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